Sandra Pergola

Sandra Marie (Faccin) Pergola was born on February 12, 1956 in Torrington, Connecticut. A beloved wife, mother, sister and mimi, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family on the morning of September 24, 2025. She was preceded in death by her parents, Robert “E” Pal Faccin and Molly (Altimari) Faccin.

Sandie was a fighter and full of life throughout her battle with cancer. She was an avid gardener and took pride in maintaining the beautiful gardens around her lakeside home. She was Bon Jovi’s biggest fan, and loved listening to their music and attending multiple concerts. She loved watching her children grow, and shared so many unforgettable memories with them. Remembered as one of the greatest lunch ladies, Sandie worked many years in the Torrington School system and then later moved on to become a dietary aid at CHH. Happily retired the last few years, Sandie found the most joy spending time with her grand daughters, living lakeside, and enjoying trips to Aruba and Block Island.

She is survived by her devoted husband and love of her life, David Pergola, of New Hartford, CT; daughter Dawn Pergola, of New Hartford CT; son Scott Pergola and wife Sarah of Torrington, CT; grandchildren Natalie, Giovanna and Patrick. Sandra also leaves behind her beloved brother, Robert Faccin and Carolyn of Torrington, CT, her bonus son, Joey Trahan, closest friend Cheryl Trahan, cousin Sally Pirla, as well as her beloved Pomeranian Theodore, and her grand dogs, CoCo and Ellie. She will be remembered fondly as a nurturing mother to her children, wife, mimi, aunt and friend.

Sandie also leaves behind family: Diane Porter and husband Scott, their children Kyle, Deanna and great niece Mia; Donald Pergola and his children Michael, Katy, Lydia, and Ryan; Dean Pergola, his wife Sherrie, their children Luke, Brie, and Leah; Douglas Pergola, his wife Kelly, and their children John and Sophia.

Special thanks to Smilow Cancer Center and CHH ICU for all of their love and support they showed and provided to Sandie and her family throughout this time.

Funeral services will be held on Thursday, October 2, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Cook Funeral Home, 82 Litchfield St., Torrington, CT. Burial will be private. Relatives and friends may call on Wednesday, October 1, 2025, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Cook Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Smilow Cancer Center on Kennedy Drive in Torrington, CT.